About

Welcome to the pineapple squad, you IVF warriors. A place like this didn’t exist, so I decided to make one. Reddit has been the most comprehensive site for IVF knowledge and is excellent, and, I am forever grateful for its search function. But I thought out of our shared experiences and generally “I feel lost” spiral, I would attempt to make a site for IVF patients, by IVF patients. Something comprehensive, from an IVF patient perspective. The perspective that has us crying at triggers that only we collectively know. So with that, welcome one and all. I am sad you are here too, but happy to be in such great shared company. 

Introduction: I am an MD doctor in the USA, not an ob/gyn or REI. As for my identity, for now, I would like to stay anon

“FET and me” is “F E T and me”, short for “frozen embryo transfer and me” 🙂

This is a work in progress.

This is NOT medical or financial advice.

Things we won’t cover in depth here: reproductive advocacy, policy, donor eggs, surrogacy. All very important. But other great resources exist to cover that. 

If you have any feedback or questions, email me at questions@fetandme.com